what really grinds my gears

you know what really grinds my gears?

When there is something that you want/need to do, but cant get to right away, and someone says 'well, i guess if you really wanted it then you would do it/it would happen'.

you know what? if i *didn't* really want it, i wouldn't even fake the effort. just because i don't drop everything else in my life to do it right this second, doesn't make me want it any less, so eff you and your closed mindedness. maybe some of us have a life, or at the very least a life-balance going on, so that we cant just do everything the second if flits into our minds.

just mind your own business and keep your snotty comments to yourself. or ill show you what i really want to do....